I want to thank everyone who shared their time with me in 2023. I so appreciate you. As you go into 2024, be kind to yourself. When someone you love has died, recently or even years ago, the new year can bring on waves of emotions. You don’t have to put expectations upon yourself. Permit yourself to embrace your feelings.… Read more →

During my childhood, December was always a wonderful month. My mother loved Christmas. Christmas Eve was her birthday, so all the family gathered at our house. My father sold Christmas trees, and my mother spent her days joyfully preparing for Christmas. She shopped and shopped, sent Christmas cards, baked cookies and decorated the house. I was always by her side;… Read more →

Each month, I give a lot of thought to the message that I want to share with you. November is by far the hardest month because I feel that I want to incorporate Thanksgiving. When we think of Thanksgiving, we feel that we must give thanks. For those who are grieving, thanks can be hard to express, and gathering with… Read more →

Those who read my blog regularly know that I love to quote the dead. When I communicate with them, the words of knowledge they give me is sometimes so profound that I have to share it with you. When you die, you don’t just instantly become evolved, but your perception changes. These changes then create a clearer picture of life.… Read more →

As you may know, I have added a new aspect to my life as a medium. I now go to the bedside of those who are dying. Read more about this work at https://spiritualdying.com/. In many of my teachings, I try to bring an understanding of death. Through understanding, we can find comfort. This poem by Rev. Luther F. Beecher… Read more →

As I sit and reflect on my day, I come to the realization that I am amazed by my clients. My clients are truly my teachers. Even after so many years of being a medium, I still am able to learn so much about life through the understanding of death. Today I had two clients, the first whom I will… Read more →

As I sit outside on this warm day, I reflect back on the summers of my past. The memories of these summers are wonderful. My family gathered together for picnics in the back yard. Whether it was at our house or at one of my aunt’s, my mother was the life of the party. Fourth of July was always special… Read more →

Last month, I wrote about a mother’s grief, so this month I want to touch on a father’s grief. In my work as a medium, I have sat in sessions with both moms and dads whose child has died. In some sessions, they have sat together; but most of the time, either the mom or dad will come to see… Read more →

I want to dedicate this blog to all the mothers and grandmothers whose children have died. This is probably the worst fate that anyone can endure. When I was five, my brother died in a boating accident. The grief that filled my house was unbearable. My mother could not let go. As a child, I could not understand her pain.… Read more →

During my work as a medium, I have been asked the same question many times, “Does my loved one send me signs?” The answer is usually, “yes.” Because our minds are so filled with unnecessary chatter, we miss the signs. My client Yvette was in desperate need of a sign from her deceased husband, Tom. All through our session, she… Read more →